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16 Warning Signs that your Teen Needs Counseling-From Fox River Grove, Lake Zurich and Oakwood Hills
- By Mike Shery
- Published 05/18/2008
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A variety of behavioral and emotional problems afflict teenage youngsters. For example, some of them seem to have great difficulty following rules and behaving in socially acceptable ways.
They are often viewed by other children, adults or social agencies as bad apples, bipolar, ADHD or troublemakers. If your teenager exhibits some of the following behaviors, you should consider counseling for him or her:
1. Hostile or violent behavior toward people or animals,
2. The use of threatening, bullying or intimidating behavior,
3. The starting of fights,
4. Carries a weapon that could cause serious harm to others
(e.g. a bat, brick, broken bottle, knife or gun),
5. Behaves cruelly, physically or emotionally, to either people or animals,
6. Steals,
7. Highly aggressive or demanding sexually,
8. Destroys property,
9. Sets fires, intending to cause damage,
10. Is deceitful,
11. Has broken into a building, house, or car belonging to someone else,
12. Lies to avoid responsibilities,
13. Shoplifts,
14. Often stays out at night, despite your objections,
15. Has run away from home,
16. Has been truant.
If a child of yours has exhibited any of these behaviors, he or she should receive a comprehensive evaluation by a psychologist. He or she may also have parallel conditions such as a mood disorder, anxiety, PTSD, a substance abuse problem, ADHD, or a thought disorder, all of which should also be evaluated.
Your youngster is likely to have ongoing problems if he or she fails to receive early and comprehensive
counseling. Without it, he or she will continue to be unable to adapt to the demands of adulthood.
Unfortunately, he or she will continue to be at high risk for having problems with relationships, school, effective socialization and even maintaining a job.
If your kid relishes the breaking of laws and behaving antisocially, any number of factors may be contributing, including brain damage, child abuse, heredity, academic failure and/or traumatic life experiences.
Treatment of your son or daughter can be complex and challenging. However, it can be provided in a variety of different settings depending on the severity of the behavior.
Counseling with these kids can be very challenging because they often have an uncooperative attitude and a fear and distrust of adults and other authority figures. In developing a comprehensive treatment plan, a child and adolescent psychologist will likely use information gleaned from your child, your family members, his or her teachers and other behavioral specialists in order to understand the causes of his or her problems.
Behavior therapy, counseling and psychotherapy will usually be necessary to help your child appropriately express and control anger; special education programs may also be needed if he or she has any learning disabilities.
You will probably need expert assistance in devising and carrying out any special management or educational programs that may be prescribed for use in your home or his or her school. Treatment may also include medication if your youngster has difficulty paying attention, controlling his or her impulses or managing depression.
Treatment may not be brief since establishing new attitudes and behavior patterns for him or her will take time. However, early treatment offers your child a better chance for considerable improvement and hope for a more successful future.
They are often viewed by other children, adults or social agencies as bad apples, bipolar, ADHD or troublemakers. If your teenager exhibits some of the following behaviors, you should consider counseling for him or her:
1. Hostile or violent behavior toward people or animals,
2. The use of threatening, bullying or intimidating behavior,
3. The starting of fights,
4. Carries a weapon that could cause serious harm to others
(e.g. a bat, brick, broken bottle, knife or gun),
5. Behaves cruelly, physically or emotionally, to either people or animals,
6. Steals,
7. Highly aggressive or demanding sexually,
8. Destroys property,
9. Sets fires, intending to cause damage,
10. Is deceitful,
11. Has broken into a building, house, or car belonging to someone else,
12. Lies to avoid responsibilities,
13. Shoplifts,
14. Often stays out at night, despite your objections,
15. Has run away from home,
16. Has been truant.
If a child of yours has exhibited any of these behaviors, he or she should receive a comprehensive evaluation by a psychologist. He or she may also have parallel conditions such as a mood disorder, anxiety, PTSD, a substance abuse problem, ADHD, or a thought disorder, all of which should also be evaluated.
Your youngster is likely to have ongoing problems if he or she fails to receive early and comprehensive
Unfortunately, he or she will continue to be at high risk for having problems with relationships, school, effective socialization and even maintaining a job.
If your kid relishes the breaking of laws and behaving antisocially, any number of factors may be contributing, including brain damage, child abuse, heredity, academic failure and/or traumatic life experiences.
Treatment of your son or daughter can be complex and challenging. However, it can be provided in a variety of different settings depending on the severity of the behavior.
Counseling with these kids can be very challenging because they often have an uncooperative attitude and a fear and distrust of adults and other authority figures. In developing a comprehensive treatment plan, a child and adolescent psychologist will likely use information gleaned from your child, your family members, his or her teachers and other behavioral specialists in order to understand the causes of his or her problems.
Behavior therapy, counseling and psychotherapy will usually be necessary to help your child appropriately express and control anger; special education programs may also be needed if he or she has any learning disabilities.
You will probably need expert assistance in devising and carrying out any special management or educational programs that may be prescribed for use in your home or his or her school. Treatment may also include medication if your youngster has difficulty paying attention, controlling his or her impulses or managing depression.
Treatment may not be brief since establishing new attitudes and behavior patterns for him or her will take time. However, early treatment offers your child a better chance for considerable improvement and hope for a more successful future.
Mike Shery
Dr Shery is in Cary, IL, near Algonquin, Crystal Lake, Marengo and Lake-in-the-Hills. He's an expert psychologist. Call 1 847 516 0899 and make an appt orlearn more about counseling at: http://www.carypsychology.com
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